I will never forget the moment when I was 28 and my dad told me “I’ve been coaching high school sports for over 25 years and you were one of the hardest players to coach that I ever had.” That stung; really badly.
I had always wondered why during basketball practice my dad would freely offer up coaching to the other players but rarely offered anything to me. I asked him about that during our conversation and he said that I would not receive his coaching. I always knew more than he did and would basically blow him off. So he chose to quit offering coaching to me and only give me advice when I asked for it; which was rare.
I could go much deeper into the psychological effect this conversation had on me but I will spare you. I bring this watershed moment in my life to your attention to say that we all need coaches but we have to want to be coached.
I didn’t want to be coached as a 16 year old and I still don’t really want to be coached as a 49 year old. Why?
If we are willing to admit it, we are all narcissistic in nature. We have a very high opinion of ourselves. No one “enjoys” having their weaknesses pointed out to them. No one “enjoys” changing the way they do things; especially if they have been somewhat successful in the past.
However, we all need to be coached. We can all be better with relationships, techniques,
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